Dear Friends, Family, and NICS Support Team:
I suppose after almost two full years this should become normal by now, but it still never ceases to amaze me, as I review my notes before sitting down to write these updates, just how much can happen in only one month’s time. There is plenty to tell, and I could easily go on for pages and pages. Let me make my best effort to give you some of the main points:
For Spring Break at the end of March, Courtney and I went to Phuket, Thailand. We had bought the tickets back in October I think when they were on sale for a pretty good price. And though there were many uncertainties going into the trip, Courtney had thankfully spent much time researching and coming up with a great itinerary. All in all, Phuket was so relaxing, something that Courtney and I both really needed. There is plenty I could say about the culture of Thailand and what it was like to experience being surrounded by a vast majority of Buddhist adherents, but to save space on this update I will direct you to Courtney’s blog, https://myindonesianadventure.wordpress.com/, where did a great job giving some facts about that part of the trip.
The single biggest praise, for me at least, was the answered prayer that Courtney has been feeling much better since we got back from Phuket. We were talking just a couple of days ago about our greatest joys from the past month, and she shared how nice it’s been to feel like doing things that before she didn’t have the energy to do.
There is still a prayer request in that there are a couple of unanswered health concerns still on the radar. The tricky thing, of course, is knowing when any health issues are simply the body adjusting to such a new environment, or something completely unrelated, or a mixture of the two. As I write this to you, I hope that if you hear nothing else from me in this whole update you will hear that Yahweh has over and over proven himself faithful in all the unforeseen challenges that have come this school year. What a great God to so patiently refine us both for our service to him hear!
New Laptop meet Accreditation
To further flesh out my last sentence… Courtney and I got back from Thailand on a Friday night, leaving a couple of days for me to prep the next week’s schoolwork – which wasn’t just any week, as a team of international educators were coming for our 6 year reaccreditation visit. We as BAIS staff had been preparing for this visit since August, and truthfully I don’t think most of us were too tense about it. We had prepared well, but at the same time there was the reality of these people just dropping into your classroom at any time to see you teach or ask you questions… only slightly intimidating!
Well, I found out on Saturday morning that, after NO signs of problems, my laptop (which I bought towards the beginning of college) was completely dead. Talk about some good timing. Yet, there were so many blessings for me to count. Almost all of my data was backed up (thanks to Derrick for providing an external hard drive to me and Courtney just for that purpose), so I wasn’t really set back in terms of that. Also, I was able to get a new laptop at a really great price with some help from our IT director. Finally, I can’t imagine what it would have been like if my laptop had died during the middle of the week. Though it was an inconvenience, it was simple enough to get everything taken care of over the weekend and be ready for school.
The longer I live the more fond I grow of these testing moments – when Yahweh so pulls things outside of your expectations or control that you have no choice but to rely on him for the timing, the finances, and all the other means to carry things out. Faithful is our God!
Speaking of Yahweh’s faithfulness, he also works so well in ways that defy our expectations. I’ve written about this several times already, but Courtney has so been excelling in her language studies! Still, the reality of language acquisition is that it just takes time, and so Courtney and I have been processing through what the next few years will look like for both of us. We were pretty well feeling peaceful and patient about the process, when very unexpectedly Courtney was able to have a conversation with our helper’s husband in which just the right door opened… that Courtney was able to share her faith with him – all in English! Isn’t it beautifully ironic how the Lord can take us where we’re at, if we’re willing to be used by him?
As of yet, we don’t know that this person has changed has faith from that of the majority faith here, but regardless, Courtney was a faithful sower of the seeds given to us. Though this doesn’t change our visions of what the future will look like and the amount of time it’s going to take to get there, it’s so exciting to see God bearing fruit in the here and now. May we be faithful to trust the Holy Spirit to be our interpreter.
School Stuff: Spring Concert, Praise Teams, and a Very Special Birthday Party
The month of April was certainly a whirlwind at school, and it’s honestly been a tough month for me. We had our Spring Concert on Thursday, April 5th, and it’s very exciting to see how the students have progressed from semester to semester. Though, again, the process isn’t as fast as I might like, it’s exciting to see the Lord working through all my insecurities and lack of training to grow the musical abilities of the students.
What’s tough is that there hasn’t really been a break since the concert, because we had to jump right into preparing for a “recital” performance that will happen on May 15th. This was somewhat of an oversight on my part and an issue where I didn’t think through what the “recital” should be. Anyways, suffice to say that I’ve taken care of that for next year, so the schedule shouldn’t be so full on my end come the end of the school year. The problem is that, as I’m enjoying the thought of these changes for next year, I still have to finish this one! Beyond just the calendar, there are so many curriculum changes and new ideas that are drawing me focus away from teaching well right now. I’ve prayed through this and really tried to make myself put off giving mental energy to some of next year’s things, and I would appreciate your prayers for finishing well.
Speaking of finishing well, it has been a real struggle to keep the praise teams from unraveling at the seams for their last two chapels of the year. Between sickness, lack of interest, students quitting, students not showing up, etc., I’ve had to really surrender to God my frustrations – many of which center around the revelation that I clearly haven’t shepherded quite as well as I had hoped this year. It is painfully apparent to everyone involved that I never should have taken on leading two teams, but I am so thankful that the Lord’s grace is wide enough to cover this mistake, and I can ultimately just trust him that he HAS been at work in some of the students this year. I am very excited to only be in charge of one praise team next year (and actually, I may even just be splitting leadership with someone else). That should really give me time to think through the philosophy of what we’re doing (which if I don’t have time to do I become really cranky and feeling uprooted) and also to be a better disciple-maker of the students. Please pray for wisdom as the final decisions in all of this is still being made for next year.
Now, speaking of disciple-making… I must rejoice in sharing with you that I experienced one of the greatest moments of my two year teaching career this month. A 7th grader who is in my boys’ Bible study and also part of the praise teams turned 13 years old. For his birthday, his dad (who meets weekly with me as part of a mentoring relationship) wanted to hold a “rite of passage” ceremony for him. The ceremony took place on Saturday, April 14th. For the ceremony, myself plus 3 other teachers were asked to affirm qualities that we see in him and also speak on the role a certain topic would play in his life as he continues on the journey to manhood. My topic was integrity.
What a humbling experience… to be sitting there with veteran teachers in their 30s and 40s – you know, the prime candidates for making a big impact in this boy’s life… and then there’s me – fresh out of college, a ripe 24 years old, newly married, and feeling mostly clueless these days about the big world that God put is in! Yet, his dad told me they wanted me there specifically for the ways this student looks up to me and for the impact I’ve had in his life in just these short two years. Woah. Humbling. May I never forget the awesome responsibility and great privilege of my calling.
I’m slightly out of chronological order now, but I would be remiss if I didn’t mention the exciting first Easter that Courtney and I celebrated together. A couple of weeks before Easter, Courtney shared with me that she was missing the thought of a good Southern-style family dinner. As we talked through it, she came up with an idea that I encouraged her in – why not us host some people over for dinner this year (especially since we’re living in such a big house right now). Well… the next task was to make the guest list. That, of course, is a challenge – especially in such a small community where you don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings. We went through that game that we all play of trying to figure out what groups made most logical sense to invite together without offending other parties… and the solution we finally came up with was – why not just invite everyone (expecting, of course, that lots of people would already have plans)!
Result? 28 people at our house for Easter potluck! Courtney did such a beautiful job organizing it all – getting an extra table and chairs, coordinating with people to bring food and drinks, and setting the house up to be nice and inviting. When everyone had arrived, we opened up the homemade “Resurrection Eggs” that Courtney and I had drawn up… for which my inner theologian got a little carried away and decided that, rather than telling just the passion story, why not go through ALL of redemptive history starting in Genesis!? =) Needless to say, it got a little long and some of the last eggs had to be paraphrased a little.
What a blessed time with so many of our Indonesian family members. I was so proud of my wife for hauling out some major party organizing skills that I didn’t even know she had.
The last thing for this update is a joyful report that Courtney and I now have keys to our new house, and it is about 99.5% furnished already! Before we came there was the big question mark of whether or not we would effectively use our year in the Paese’s house to buy the things we’d need ahead of time. Well, through various situations and people leaving, God has so provided in the details, and Courtney and I are excited that our new home will be made up furniture that has history and people associated with it. When we look at it, we’ll be able to tell people about the ones who had a place in our lives for this year but are no longer at BAIS.
Details still remain of having to move all the furniture (which people still have in their homes and are using) and getting some things setup both outside and inside the house. Again, Courtney has taken the reigns and done such a good job coordinating with Indonesian workers and getting plans into action. We are so blessed with the house we’ve had this year but it’s definitely getting time to move. How exciting, then, that the move will happen while Courtney’s family is here, so they can leave with memories of where we will be staying.
How richly God has blessed mine and Courtney’s finances in our first year of marriage, primarily through the generous wedding gifts that came out before we returned to Indonesia. If I were to take the time to make a list, I think you would be utterly amazed at how far God extended that money and all the things we were able to take care of through it. The reality now, though, is that the wedding funds are almost gone, and so now we’re just about at the point of living month-to-month on one paycheck. Not for a second do I have concerns about that; God will provide, but I do, as always, want to encourage you, our support team, that there are many ways your financial gift could bless us. I’ve written before that even small gifts ($5-10) go a long ways here. For $5 you can buy a month’s worth of gas; $20 will pay mine and Courtney’s phone bills for a month; $30 will buy a week’s worth of groceries; $60 will pay our Indonesian helper’s salary for a month; $80 will basically pay all our bills for a month.
Courtney also did this write-up about some bigger needs, which I will close with. Please remember, also, that Courtney and I would both appreciate hearing from you. Especially in these last months of school after you’ve been back in country almost a year without plans to return to the States for another 7 months can make the days and weeks seem long when you don’t hear from people. We’re both easily reached by e-mail: email@example.com or firstname.lastname@example.org. Also, you can call us here in Indonesia via our MagicJack number: (615) 530-7876 (which is just like calling any other 615 number in the United States – no extra international charges or anything).
Because of Christ,
1. End of the Year stuff: Bryn has to attend all of the end of the year events and some of them are around 200,000 rp per person which comes to about $25
2. Housing: Bryn and I set aside money for when we moved into a house. God has provided everything. Part of living in this country means a lot of fixing things when moving in with cracks on the walls, etc. This last week, I had the opportunity to get to know a local handyman who needs financial help, and he has been painting and doing an amazing job. Also, we need workers to help setup our new backyard. We set money a part for this, however, our budget did not go as far as we thought it would. This is not just hiring people to fix things for us, but a time where we can talk to and get to know the Indonesian people and give them money so that they can have food and provide food for their families. As they are working, pray for moments that I have the language and can share with the workers about Hope. We want our house to be a place where Indonesians can come and see Christ. Pray with us that God will be revealing to me His plan for that.
3. Ministry: As we look for the next school year, Bryn is looking to buy things for the new year, and his budget does not really cover all of the needed materials. Also, there are some other possibilities on the horizon, but the ministry opportunities would require some monetary needs for me as well. Bryn and I also are interested in doing work on some other islands and assist the workers there as they work. We have friends living on various islands in Indonesia but will need financial support to go see them and learn about the kingdom work that is going on there.
4. Weekend Getaways: This is not always a need, but I thought I would throw it in, because the demands of living in a poverty, high stress country means we need to get out of the country or at least away. We can fly to Thailand, Philippines, Singapore, and various other islands with just a 2-4 hour plane flight and they are really cheap. It is a much needed time for reflection and to just really see where we should go from there. It is hard to think when we are in the middle of it at times.